Traveling to Japan is like stepping into a blend of futuristic wonder and deep-rooted tradition. Everything feels neat, quiet, and polite—even in the middle of Tokyo’s busiest neighborhoods.
But while the country welcomes travelers with open arms, there are certain cultural rules that aren’t always obvious to outsiders. Some are rooted in respect, others in etiquette, but ignoring them—even by accident—can make you seem inconsiderate.
So, before you hop on the bullet train or slurp your first bowl of ramen, here are 10 things not to do in Japan to help you avoid awkward moments and show respect for local customs.
1. Don’t Talk Loudly in Public Transport
You might be used to chatting on the subway or taking calls on a train back home—but in Japan, this is a big no-no. Trains and buses are almost always quiet. People usually avoid phone calls, and even conversations are kept to a minimum.
Why it matters:
Japanese society values harmony. Speaking loudly disrupts the calm that most locals expect, especially during commutes.
What to do instead:
Keep your phone on silent (many phones have a specific “manner mode”). If you need to talk to a friend, whisper briefly or wait until you’re off the train.
2. Don’t Tip at Restaurants
In many countries, tipping is a way to show appreciation. But in Japan, leaving extra money on the table can confuse or even offend your server.
Why it matters:
Good service is considered standard, not something you pay extra for. In fact, your server might chase you down to return the tip you left behind.
What to do instead:
Just pay the bill as it’s written. If you truly want to show gratitude, a polite bow or a simple “gochisousama deshita” (thank you for the meal) goes a long way.
3. Don’t Walk and Eat at the Same Time
That tasty matcha ice cream might tempt you to stroll while snacking—but in Japan, walking while eating is usually frowned upon, especially in clean public spaces.
Why it matters:
Cleanliness is taken seriously. Eating on the move can lead to spills, litter, or drawing unwanted attention.
What to do instead:
Find a designated bench or eat-in corner, or stand beside the vendor where you bought the snack. Finish eating before continuing your stroll.
4. Don’t Ignore the Rules at Temples and Shrines
It’s easy to get caught up in the beauty of Japan’s ancient shrines. But these aren’t just photo spots—they’re sacred spaces with rituals and etiquette.
Why it matters:
Temples and shrines are spiritual places. Disrespecting the customs, like walking in the center of the path or taking photos where signs say not to, can come across as rude.
What to do instead:
Wash your hands at the purification station, bow before entering, and follow the crowd’s lead. Avoid loud voices, and ask before snapping photos inside sacred areas.
5. Don’t Point at People or Things
Pointing might feel natural when you’re asking for directions or picking something from a menu—but in Japan, it’s considered impolite, especially when directed at someone.
Why it matters:
Gestures carry different meanings in different cultures. What seems neutral elsewhere can feel rude in Japan.
What to do instead:
If you need to indicate something, use your whole hand to gesture gently, or better yet, ask politely using words.
6. Don’t Wear Shoes Indoors (Especially at Homes, Temples, and Certain Restaurants)
This one can catch travelers off guard. In Japan, wearing outdoor shoes inside isn’t just unusual—it’s seen as unhygienic. Whether you’re entering a traditional inn (ryokan), a home, a temple, or even some restaurants, there’s a good chance you’ll need to take your shoes off.
Why it matters:
Cleanliness is key in Japanese culture. The idea is to keep the outside dirt from coming inside.
What to do instead:
Look for cues—if you see a row of shoes by the door or a step-up area, it’s time to remove yours. Often, slippers will be provided. Just remember: there are even separate slippers for bathrooms. Don’t mix them up!
7. Don’t Skip the Queue
Japan might be one of the most orderly countries when it comes to waiting your turn. Whether you’re at a train station, convenience store, or bus stop—there’s almost always a line. And cutting it? That’s a quick way to get silently judged.
Why it matters:
Queuing
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is a symbol of fairness and patience. Skipping the line breaks that trust.
What to do instead:
Look for signs or floor markings showing where the line forms. People might not say anything if you break the rule, but trust me—you’ll feel the quiet disapproval.
8. Don’t Blow Your Nose in Public
Got a cold? Reaching for a tissue? Try to be discreet. In Japan, blowing your nose loudly in public is considered quite rude. It’s one of those things that’s not strictly forbidden, but it’s seen as impolite and even a bit gross.
Why it matters:
The emphasis on manners and public hygiene makes things like loud nose-blowing feel inconsiderate to others.
What to do instead:
If you really need to, excuse yourself and find a restroom or a quiet corner. Many locals simply sniffle until they’re somewhere private.
9. Don’t Forget to Separate Your Trash
Think you can just toss your drink bottle in any trash can? Not in Japan. Waste disposal here is a serious business, and the rules vary depending on city and region.
Why it matters:
Japan is meticulous about recycling. Mixing your trash, especially in public spaces, can create problems for the people who sort it—and it’s seen as lazy.
What to do instead:
Take a quick look at the bins. They’re usually labeled with icons for plastics, cans, burnables, and non-burnables. If you’re not sure? It’s totally normal to carry your trash in your bag until you find the right bin.
10. Don’t Expect People to Speak English Everywhere
Many Japanese people study English in school, but that doesn’t mean they’re fluent—or confident enough to use it. While major tourist spots usually have signs in English, don’t assume everyone you meet can easily understand you.
Why it matters:
Assuming English is universal can come across as arrogant or dismissive of local culture.
What to do instead:
Learn a few key Japanese phrases. A simple “sumimasen” (excuse me) or “arigatou” (thank you) shows respect. And if all else fails? Use gestures, smiles, or even translation apps. People will appreciate the effort.
Understanding the “Why” Behind These Rules
By now, you might be thinking: “Wow, there are so many rules!” But here’s the thing—Japan isn’t trying to be strict or unwelcoming. These customs are all about respect, order, and group harmony (which the Japanese call wa). The idea isn’t to call you out for making mistakes. In fact, locals are usually very forgiving when they know you’re a tourist. What matters most is your intention and effort to be mindful.
Let’s break down a few cultural principles that tie these customs together:
1. Respect for Personal Space
Whether it’s staying quiet on public transport or avoiding pointing fingers, many Japanese customs revolve around not disturbing others. Personal space isn’t just physical—it’s also about noise, body language, and how you carry yourself in a group setting.
In crowded cities like Tokyo or Osaka, you’ll see millions of people moving together smoothly, with very little chaos. That’s not an accident—it’s built on a shared understanding that everyone should stay aware and considerate of others.
2. Cleanliness is a National Value
This isn’t just about keeping streets tidy (though that’s impressive too). From removing your shoes indoors to carefully sorting trash, cleanliness in Japan reflects a deeper cultural value: purity and mindfulness.
Even in Shinto beliefs, which influence many daily customs, purification rituals are common. That’s why washing hands before entering a shrine or avoiding messy eating in public are more than just habits—they’re part of a long-standing tradition of spiritual and physical cleanliness.
3. Harmony Over Individual Expression
In many Western cultures, standing out is often encouraged. But in Japan, the group tends to come first. This doesn’t mean you have to hide your personality—just that being loud, disruptive, or overly assertive in public might be seen as inconsiderate.
That’s why even simple acts like skipping a line or taking a call on a crowded train can feel more offensive than you might expect. It’s not about the act itself—it’s about how it affects everyone else.
4. Politeness is Silent but Strong
You’ll notice that many Japanese people are incredibly polite—but not always in the loud or obvious ways. There’s often a lot of bowing, quiet thank-yous, and subtle gestures. It might feel a bit formal at first, but it’s actually a beautiful part of how people interact.
What’s more? Many people will go out of their way to help you, even if they don’t speak your language. I once had a station employee walk me to the correct platform because I looked confused. That’s the kind of kindness that sticks with you—and it’s grounded in a culture that values thoughtful action.
How to Avoid These Mistakes Without Stressing Out
It’s easy to feel overwhelmed by all the do’s and don’ts when visiting a new country, especially one as unique as Japan. But here’s the good news: nobody expects you to be perfect. The key is to stay observant, ask when you’re unsure, and always lead with respect.
Here are a few tips to help you confidently navigate Japanese customs without stressing out:
1. Observe What Locals Do
When in doubt, take a quick look around. Japanese people are incredibly consistent when it comes to public behavior. Watching what others do—like how they queue, where they sit, or whether they’re eating in place—can give you instant clues about what’s acceptable.
This was especially helpful for me when figuring out how to behave at shrines. I just quietly followed the crowd and mirrored their movements. No one said a word, but I got a few approving smiles!
2. Carry a Small Bag for Trash
Since public garbage bins are rare (and strict about sorting), having a small ziplock or pouch for your trash will save you more times than you can imagine. It’s totally normal to hold onto your empty bottle or snack wrapper until you find the right place to throw it out.
It may feel odd at first, but it quickly becomes second nature. Bonus: you’ll never be that tourist holding an overflowing coffee cup with nowhere to toss it.
3. Learn a Few Key Phrases
You don’t need to speak fluent Japanese to get by, but knowing a few basics can really smooth things over. Some helpful ones:
- Sumimasen (すみません) – Excuse me / Sorry
- Arigatou gozaimasu (ありがとうございます) – Thank you
- Eigo o hanasemasu ka? (英語を話せますか？) – Do you speak English?
- Daijoubu desu (大丈夫です) – It’s okay / No, thank you
Even trying to say a few words can earn you smiles and appreciation. Locals will often meet you halfway.
4. Download Helpful Apps
Some apps that can make your Japan trip smoother:
- Google Translate – Great for reading menus or signage (use the camera mode).
- Hyperdia or Japan Travel by NAVITIME – For navigating train systems.
- Imiwa? or Takoboto – Japanese-English dictionary apps that work offline.
- PayPay or Suica Mobile – For cashless payments if you stay longer.
Technology can help bridge the gap when language and customs feel tricky.
5. Keep a “Respectful Mindset” First
Ultimately, the biggest thing you can bring to Japan isn’t a phrasebook or perfect knowledge of etiquette—it’s a respectful mindset. If you’re trying your best, open to learning, and willing to adjust, that effort shines through.
Don’t be afraid to make small mistakes. Smile, bow slightly, and say a soft “sumimasen” if you slip up. People will understand—and they’ll likely appreciate your humility more than if you had gotten everything perfectly right.
Bonus Tips: A Few More Cultural “Don’ts” to Keep in Mind
While we’ve covered the major cultural no-nos, there are a few extra things that travelers often overlook. These aren’t always dealbreakers, but being aware of them shows that you’ve done your homework—and that’s always appreciated.
1. Don’t Stick Chopsticks Upright in Rice
This is more than just a quirky dining rule—it’s a serious faux pas. Sticking chopsticks upright into a bowl of rice closely resembles a ritual done at funerals.
What to do instead:
Lay your chopsticks flat across the top of your bowl or place them neatly on the holder provided.
2. Don’t Touch Others Casually
In many Western cultures, hugging or touching someone lightly on the arm might be normal. In Japan, however, personal space is respected more strictly, especially with people you’ve just met.
Tip:
A bow goes a long way. It’s respectful, culturally appropriate, and never awkward.
3. Don’t Expect Tattoos to Be Welcomed Everywhere
While tattoos are becoming more accepted among younger generations, they still carry a stigma in traditional spaces—especially onsen (hot springs) and gyms, where tattoos are associated with the Yakuza (organized crime).
What to do instead:
Check ahead. Some onsen offer “tattoo-friendly” access or provide covers you can wear. If unsure, ask discreetly.
4. Don’t Eat or Drink on Local Trains
While long-distance trains like the Shinkansen are perfectly fine for eating, local and commuter trains are not. Even cracking open a water bottle might draw glances.
Best practice:
Eat before or after your ride unless you’re on a train with tray tables and designated meal options.
Final Thoughts
Japan is one of the most rewarding places to travel. It’s clean, safe, efficient, and often feels like a place where everything just works. But part of what makes it so magical is the mutual respect that holds society together—and as a visitor, you’re invited to be a part of that.
You don’t need to memorize every rule. You just need to approach your trip with curiosity, humility, and a willingness to adapt. Make mistakes. Learn from them. And enjoy how incredibly gracious people are when they see that you care.
So, next time you’re boarding a train, ordering sushi, or slipping off your shoes—remember: these little things matter.
Travel isn’t just about seeing a new place. It’s about learning how other people live—and being open enough to meet them where they are.
